Balanced relationship activates harmony

Both have roles to provide but in different ways.

Fact: Wives can bring home the bacon, too. While Husbands can be good at managing the household, also.

Point: Relationships are equal parts give and take. So, for me the idea of getting high or giving more weight to the ones who bring home the bacon is unrighteous.☺️

Balanced relationship activates harmony πŸ˜‰

Please read the article from Smart Parenting:

There’s magic in decluttering

There’s magic in decluttering

Guess what? It’s not over yet. 😳

You know that feeling when you feel like there’s so much to do but you have no idea what that is? πŸ™ˆ

That feeling when you just feel tired and restless but you actually did not do anything much? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

And that feeling when you feel irritated but you super know it’s not PMS? πŸ™…β€β™€οΈ

It happens to me once in a while, and that’s my cue to declutter. Oh, yes! I do a lot of decluttering in a year.πŸ™Žβ€β™€οΈ

Decluttering our room, the girls’ room, our closets, our kitchen, and because I’m a Mom and a wife and an entrepreneur, multitasking on a daily basis is my thing, and hence a lot of decluttering my mind!☺️

I always say that there’s some sort of magic in decluttering, but truth is CLUTTER energetically (I will tell you more about energy next time πŸ˜‰) hinders or blocks the good energy or the flow of abundance getting in our way. [It creates blocks in the flow of energy within you!] Ahuh!πŸ˜‰

When we declutter, we remove unwanted things to create space for something new. That’s why when I declutter, I feel good instantly. ✨Magic!πŸ˜‰

Decluttering doesn’t apply to our physical environment only, but also to our emotional baggage (we all have emotional clutter and it’s perfectly normal!) and this may sound peculiar but also applies to our relationships.😬

If these emotions prevent me from keeping my sanity, just like any material things, I get rid of them. Accept these emotions, declutter, and transformation begins. ✨Magic!πŸ˜‰

Relationships. This is the hardest for me. I’ve been told and taught by papa+, (and of course I learned this the hard way againπŸ€·β€β™€οΈ), to surround myself with people who will help me become a better person. (Omgoodness. 20 years ago, I didn’t understand this.✌🏻) It took me a very long time to realize -you’ll understand if you’re an empath- that it’s okay, that it doesn’t make me a bad person if I declutter relationships. Positivity attracts positivity, right? Imagine yourself in an environment with full of ungrateful and insecure people? You already know the vibe that you’re attracting.πŸ™…β€β™€οΈ Like I said, this one is the hardest, but I intently and instinctively choose to surround myself with people who genuinely accept, love and support me, then there’s contentment and gratefulness.πŸ’œ When there’s gratefulness, there’s abundance. ✨Magic!πŸ˜‰

May we all have the courage to declutter for the balance of our mind. πŸ˜˜πŸ’ž

#Magic #Encourage #Sanity

Tough Love

This morning, as I brought her to her classroom, she ran back to me and asked if I can go back to the house and get her project in Filipino that she forgot to bring.πŸ™ˆπŸ˜” I told her I can’t.

Honestly, a part of me really wanted to take advantage of the situation to teach her about facing the consequences of her actions, but when she already cried and told me “but Mom, I am the leader of my team and we need to finish it”, I felt like something was pinching my heart πŸ’”

There were a lot of things on my mind earlier – she was just 7 years old and like any 7yo kid, they just want to play; she will disappoint her teammates, she might think that I did not help her when she needed me (I’m teary eyed typing this), and more.

I told Jett about it and we’ve decided that it was a great opportunity to teach her a lesson on responsibility.

when I picked her up and asked about it, she said they were able to do it, she talked to her teammates, some got disappointed but some were very understanding and it’s all good.

I hope and pray my daughter learned her lesson.

When is the right time to teach them responsibility? I don’t know. But I believe we shouldn’t miss opportunities like this. It maybe hard and painful for us parents, but if it will make them a better person, then we should go for it!πŸ˜‰

I took a photo of her but she didn’t allow me to post it. ☺️

Let Go

For us to see the best that has yet to come, we have to learn to let go. Letting go of our attachments will set us free. πŸ™ŒπŸ»

We can let go by choice or by circumstance. πŸ‘ŠπŸ»

I learned that every time we lose something big or small (people, positions, materials, and even VIP treatment πŸ€ͺ), God is telling us to grow spiritually because all these things will ONLY give us fragile peace, and He wants us to have permanent peace.πŸ™πŸ»β€οΈ

May we all find the courage to let go. 😊